With Valentine’s Day fast approaching, you may feel anxious when you are loose — as it is only for people in real relationships.
But the truth is, that’s not really the case. Valentine’s Day is for everyone — from 25-year-old married couples to you and your current fling. The key to planning your Valentine’s Day is to keep things extremely low. Jou “situationIs not about love. It’s about fun, camaraderie, and maybe even getting a little stingy and cutting an entire pizza together.
Do you need some inspiration? Check out some hot but not romantic date ideas below for people who are not – and do not intend to – fall for each other by February 14th.
Feast on Korean BBQ and then get silly (and a little sexy) in a karaoke room.
You might think cooking your own meal at a restaurant does not sound nice, but you would be wrong. This activity-based date is ideal for duos who do not know each other too well, as it keeps the conversation light and focused around, well, each other’s meat. If there is not much to say (and let’s be honest there may not be; the intended purpose of the evening is to come down), you can just focus on the cooking.
After feasting, continue the evening with some light-hearted karaoke. And yes, it also works for a steamy make-up session.
Wake up with an erotic massage.
If you and your partner decide you fancy a more erotic evening, try increasing the heat with one of JimmyJane’s Afterglow Massage Oil Candles, such as Sandalwood.
All you have to do is light the candle wick and wait about 10-15 minutes for the oil to melt. After extinguishing the flame, pour the body-safe temperature oil directly on your partner’s skin or dip your fingers in the melted oil and begin your massage. When you combine the musk scent, exciting melted and relaxing smear, you are in for an evening that is more exciting than romcoms and boxed chocolates.
Sip something new at a wine tasting.
There are two ways to participate in wine tasting: You can either take it very seriously by spitting in the bucket after trying each new variety. Or you can enjoy every sip, get stuffy, take it out there, and go home to have stiff sex. You need to get involved with the latter. And here’s what could make this plan even better: some of JimmyJane’s vibrating shorts, like the Starla + Calista, for your bow. Give them in advance for your appointment, and during the tasting she can give herself a little vibration, or give you permission to do so when she is not expecting it with the Starla bullet’s remote control. When the tension starts to rise, buy a bottle and take things to the bedroom.
Get your adrenaline pumping with some weapons.
Throwing beams have grown in popularity over the past few years, if only for the fact that they sound bad and dangerous. Think of it kind of as extreme arrows. There is also something about this cathartic activity that will make you and your appointment flare up. Try to fasten those glasses and get all sweaty axes to the target. When you are done, you will be wired with adrenaline rushing through your body, which will surely lead to an intense and passionate sex.
Build sexual tension by watching an adult movie.
If you meet a casual sex partner on V-day, suggest that you watch porn together – and not on your laptop. Valentine’s Day asks for the biggest TV in the house. Before your date is over, ask if they like to watch pornography together, and if so, what type of pornography they like. Once they arrive, everything is in order and ready to go. (You do not want the video to start buffering properly, because things get better.)
As you both pull out, grab JimmyJane’s Deimos Vibrating Cock Ring and stretch it over the base of your penis for extra vibrations while you masturbate. Once you two start
to have penetrating sex, this cock ring shows its versatility. It is specifically designed to stimulate the female clitoris while vibrating up and down the shaft of the penis. Both of you can feel the sensations, and this increases the likelihood that you two will orgasm at the same time.
The Deimos works even better with lube, so try a bottle JimmyJane Toy Lubricant. This water-based version is thick, which means you do not have to constantly re-lubricate. It is meant to be used with toys, unlike silicone-based and oil-based lubricants. And it’s non-sticky, which means it will not get over your pages (or wherever you and your date have decided to put it on).
Bare it all with a sexy game.
You probably have not played Truth or Dare since you were a teenager, so you do not know that it is actually a very more fun to play as an adult. This is a great way to find out more about what your partner is doing sexually – their preferred twists, toys and positions. Let’s say you ask your partner what their biggest sexual fantasy is, and they say they’ve always wanted a threesome. If you’re in it, you get, sir, now a threesome. And if you act fast, you get it on Valentine’s Day.
Dare can also improve prediction. You can dare your partner to hit you, to masturbate in front of you while you watch, to give you a lap dance, or to try out any other fun and sexual activity. Often we’re so quick to get to penetration that we do not stop and experiment with prediction — but it’s easy under the guise of this game.
Heat things up during dinner at home.
If all else fails, keep it simple by cooking a meal with you. Just keep the recipe simple – there is nothing sexy about a pasta dish that takes all your attention away from your appointment – and of course light. No one has ever been in the mood after devouring a deep-fried pizza or 20-ounce steak. So stick to salads, chicken, fish and vegetables.
When you are done with dinner, the obvious move is to have a good time and have some sexy time. After all, your bedroom is only a few feet away.
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